No matter whether you’re a man or a woman, getting ready for a first date can be an extremely stressful experience. It’s common for women to assume that men are self-assured and know exactly what they’re doing all the time.
In fact, the vast majority of men will assert that they have exactly the same levels of apprehension before a first date as women do. If you’re a man getting ready for your first date, here are some ways to put the pleasure back into dating and reduce any worry you may be feeling.
Give her the experience of a classic date.
In spite of the fact that women may believe they are progressive and self-reliant, when it comes to dating, at least on the first date, they adhere to more conventional norms. In the minds of the majority of women, a traditional date involves a man picking up the woman, making the arrangements for wherever they are going, and paying the bill. He also makes the reservation. Do not anticipate that she will join you on the first date or contribute to the cost of the meal. Getting things off to a good start by acting appropriately on the first date is essential.
It’s all about the timing.
Do not anticipate that she will agree to a date for either today or tomorrow. Make sure you give yourself enough time to plan and make bookings. You are letting her know that you believe she leads a busy life by asking her out on a date in the future. You are also letting her know that you do not believe she spends her time waiting for you to call while she is sitting at home.
Demonstrate to her that you cared sufficiently about this first date to have planned everything out in advance. Do not go knocking on her door without having a plan for what you are going to do when you get there. Don’t lose sight of the fact that excitement tends to make everything better!
Don’t skimp on the quality
On a first date, you shouldn’t try to save money. You don’t have to take her to the most expensive restaurant in town, but you should give some thought to the establishment that you do decide to take her to. Demonstrate to her that you have given some thought to the means by which you might express to her how important she is to you.
During the first date, there are numerous things you may do to make her happy, even if you are on a tight budget. Discover what she enjoys and make every effort to cater to her preferences. Do not be hesitant to call her in advance in order to confirm the plans you have made. This will be interpreted by her as an indication that you are looking forward to the first date with her just as much as she is.
Never before, but never after the appointed hour
Make sure you’re not late for your date. This is proper dating etiquette for any date, but it is especially important on a first date. It is best not to show up too early either, as this could cause her further anxiety if she is already running behind schedule. Call her and tell her what time she should expect you at the event, even if you can’t help being late because of something out of your control.
By the time the date is over,
Everyone wants to hear from their significant other that they are important and wanted. Do not be shy about telling her that she looks wonderful if you think she does. Do not leave her hanging at the conclusion of the date by promising to call her if you believe that the date did not go well and there is nothing you can do to rectify the situation. Thank her and give her a peck on the cheek before letting her know how much fun you had. If, on the other hand, the two of you had a wonderful time together, make sure to let her know and invite her out on another date!
