Having children raises an age-old question: how can you make your marriage a priority when you have children? Don’t be afraid of the tough balancing act that lies ahead!
When I say that I am an experienced expert in the art of marriage and parenting, I mean that I have been married for a few years and that I have two children who are under the age of five.
I have some hilarious tips and tactics that will assist you in maintaining the spark in your marriage while also ensuring that the children continue to thrive.
Make plans to go out on a date. Making time for each other is something that you need to do, even though it may sound like a cliché. Not only that, but I don’t mean simply falling asleep on the couch together after the children have gone to bed. I am referring to the act of really organizing a night out (or in) where, without any interruptions, you are able to concentrate on each other. Extra credit will be awarded to you if you are able to locate a babysitter who will not be offended if you arrive home a little drunk and begin singing karaoke in your living room.
Find things that you have in common. There is a possibility that you and your partner have different preferences in terms of movies, music, and hobbies. In spite of this, it is not impossible to find activities that both of you will love doing together. For example, perhaps you both enjoy going on hikes, cooking, or playing board games. Regardless of what it is, schedule some time to do it together. And if you have to use ice cream as a form of bribery to persuade the children to behave while you are doing it, then that is just excellent parenting.
Spread the word. This one is critical. Without maintaining open lines of communication with one another, you cannot make your marriage a top priority. When it comes to parenting decisions, domestic tasks, and anything else that could potentially cause conflict, it is important to make sure that you and your partner are on the same page. Also, if you are having problems speaking with one another, you could try penning love letters to one another. Although it may sound corny, it is an excellent method for expressing your emotions without having to worry about being interrupted by a child who is yelling.
Laugh it up. The experience of becoming a parent can be both difficult and humorous at times. Despite the pandemonium, you should try to find the humor in it and have a chuckle with your partner. It doesn’t matter if you’re just cracking jokes while you’re folding laundry or if you’re commiserating about a particularly challenging day; laughter has the ability to make you feel more connected to others and relieve stress from your life.
Act without planning. There are times when you simply have to throw caution to the wind and do something that you would not normally do. Engage your significant other in a romantic picnic in the park as a surprise, or take them away on a weekend getaway that you planned at the last minute. And if you are unable to locate a babysitter for the children, you should just bring them along with you. Not only can family vacations be romantic, but you should also be sure to bring along some extra wine.
For your convenience, here are five funny suggestions for making your marriage a top priority when you have children. Always keep in mind that the primary focus should be on striking a balance and creating time for one another. In the event that nothing else works, you should just tell yourself that the children will eventually become adults and move away, and that when that happens, you will have plenty of time to concentrate on your marriage. Do not, however, let them know that I stated it.
